BE PROACTIVE

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   Be proactive is about taking responsibility for your life. You can't keep blaming everything on your parents and grandparents. Proactive people recognize that they are Response-able. They don't blame genetics, circumstances, conditions or conditioning for their behavior. They know to choose their behavior. Reactive people, on the other hand, are often affected by their physical environment. They find external sources to blame for their behavior. If the weather is good, they feel good. If it isn't, it affects their attitude and performance, and they blame the weather.

All these external forces act as stimuli that we respond to. Between the stimuli and the response is your greatest power you have the freedom to choose your response. One of the most important thing you choose is what you say. Your language is a good indicator of how you see yourself. 

Proactive people focus their efforts on the circle of influence. They work on the things they can do something. Reactive people focus their efforts in the circle of concern things over which they have little or no control.  Gaining an awareness of the areas in which we expend our energies is a giant step in becoming proactive. 

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  1. தமிழ்ப்பூMarch 6, 2021 at 6:44 PM

    Your language is a good indicator of how you see yourself.
    இது மிகச் சரியானக் கூற்று
    Dr.A.Govindaraju.

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