DARK SIDE OF SELF LOVE

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   Self love is a lifelong practice that has to be fully attended to in order to bring about its full effects.The fact is that human beings learn far more from their pain than they do from their triumphs. We have far more to learn from our faults than our strenghts. Mirroring is an excellent technique that everybody would benefit from and can be used as a mirror for our own development. When we detest someday else, it is a flaw in our perception.

  What you see in others is a reflection of what you have within yourself but do not want to deal with. As a result, when someday bothers you, it is easier to project your own failings onto them and criticise. When we judge others, we are criticizing things we are unable to deal with ourselves.

  The shadow self is actually the seat of creativity and has many positive aspects. It is just that certain attributes are now viewed  upon favorably by our current society. You can use other people as a mirror to understand your shadow. It will be oblivious to you but crystal clear to those who know you.

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